A Global Web of Women Devoted to Embodied Wholeness

I am a woman who used to believe I didn’t belong in groups of women.

I never felt ‘feminine enough.’ But, at the same time, I was scared of being ‘too feminine’ & not being taken seriously. I laughed too loud, I talked too much, I ate all the wrong foods, and putting on lipstick gave me panic attacks!  I lived too many years thinking I was the wrong kind of person and the wrong kind of woman, and I see too many women rejecting pieces of themselves, for fear they won’t be accepted.

I’ve worked with countless women who’ve been held back by some version of these same unconscious beliefs – that only certain parts of you are acceptable in order to fit in.

The Collective is a space that feels absolutely truthful — probably the truest expression of women I’ve ever witnessed.

The Collective isn’t about fitting in.

The Collective is a place where you BELONG.

In The Collective you can never be too big, too tender, too messy, or too powerful.

The Collective is a global community of women committed to living our lives powerfully, lifting each other up, and supporting every woman in living a wildly flourishing life!

The Collective is far more than a monthly membership (and like no other community of women you have ever experienced!).  The Collective is truly a network, a community, a global web of women devoted to Embodied Wholeness — our individual wholeness, our collective wholeness, and the wholeness of the world.

We are committed to weaving the most beautiful world we know is possible, while living as if it is already so. We value the wisdom of the body, the earth, and of interdependence.

Every woman has to be part of something like The Collective … A sacred and safe space for sisterhood, where there is space for all our wildness and all of our wisdom that lies within our bodies. Kendra facilitates magnificently – in her teachings, and also by sharing her life with us — how to navigate all of our currents.”

In The Collective you will:

  • Learn how to shift from competition to collaboration with other women.
  • Receive regular coaching, support & practices tailored to you & your life.
  • Enter into a space to reveal & be witnessed — with deep & non-judgmental listening — as well as to witness other women in their own powerful process.
  • Gain practical tools to apply immediately, that will shift how you experience your life — from that of a burden into a sacred & heart-felt expression.
  • Learn how deeply normal, similar & human all of us women are — across age, race & cultural differences.

You don’t have to do this alone. 

There’s an African Proverb that says, “If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far go together,” and I would add, “if you want to go deep, go together.”

So what do members of The Collective get?

  • Two live group coaching sessions each month
  • Private access to Kendra’s Library of Teachings, Practices & Resources (as an Annual Member)
  • Hundreds of teachings, practices, tools, and more in the Member Site
  • A private virtual community
  • New & Full Moon practices
  • Bonus teachings, practices & experiences only available to members of The Collective
  • Lunar Cycle reflection tools for powerful growth
  • Mentorship from long-term students & dedicated practitioners
  • A Collection of Kendra’s Favorite Resources

“The Collective is a non-traditional way to learn about yourself. There is a lot of personal exploration, but I’ve found parts of me I didn’t know existed amongst the other women. The calls with Kendra are a breath of fresh air for me.

In The Collective we consciously, compassionately & creatively embrace & embody the full spectrum of what it means to walk through the world as a woman – in every area of your life:

Relationship & Intimacy


Work, Business & Career


Power, Pleasure & Purpose

Feminine Expression & Masculine Structure



Authentic Living

This space not only accepts, but welcomes, invites & celebrates all of you!!

More Benefits Of Joining The Collective

  • Connection with a global community of deep, powerful, devoted (as well as sassy, sexy & playful) women (*ahem* just like YOU)
  • Private classes with guest teachers: Women experts in their field
  • Regular live coaching with Kendra Cunov (founder of The Collective & The Fierce Grace Incubator) at a fraction of the cost
  • New monthly teachings for every aspect of your life: Relationship, Family, Spirituality, Boundaries, Sexuality, Self-Love…
  • Specific tools for integrating these teachings into your life
  • In the words of one member: “A wise council of women to check in with whenever I need it.”
  • Embodied practices that really work
  • Personal coaching from Kendra within the Community Forum
  • A space that truly welcomes & holds ALL of you (Priceless)
  • More joy, tenderness & down-to-earth sharing than you even knew to want!
  • An added bonus:  When you join, you don’t have to wait until the next call to dive in! You get instant access to classes ranging from ‘Get In Right Relationship With Your Money’ to ‘Access The Wisdom of Your Body’ to ‘Create Your (Next) Year From the Ground of Devotion”, as well as replays of sessions taught by world-class guest teachers, and more!

“(The Collective) is a very simple container that has space for everything. The women are AMAZING. It’s A LOT of value for the monetary investment — I got my money’s worth from the first call with Kendra and it has only expanded from there!”

What if I’m ‘not a group person’?

Here’s the thing — I’ve been working with groups for 20 years, and I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that our deepest transformation occurs in community.  I also know that I could talk ‘til the cows come home about the power of community & it might all still go in one ear & out the other, so here is what the actual members of The Collective had to say:

“I was surprised by how much I love the women who make up The Collective and our community experience on FB!!”

“One of the best parts of The Collective is continually allowing myself to be among the women, not trying to ‘fit in’…”

“The more women have joined, the better it has become. I look forward to the community growing even more!”

“In The Collective I found Sisterhood and support; I have found a place that I feel sharing is safe.”

“It truly feels like we are all together rather than we’re here to learn and or teach.”

How do I know if The Collective is right for me?

  • You ‘hold’ so much for the people in your life, but don’t receive the ‘holding’ you need

  • You are ready to not have to do it all alone

  • You may have felt like you didn’t fit in with other groups of women, but you’re ready to shift that

  • You believe in the power of women, collectively

  • You’re ready to be supported by community and by spirit

  • You believe your body holds wisdom even if you’re not sure how to access it

  • You are ready to shine & offer your gifts with other women — even if/when it feels uncomfortable

  • You have a wild (and possibly ‘unreasonable’) vision for your life and the world, and are ready to be fully supported in that vision

  • You believe in honoring your natural cycles and seasonal rhythms (even if you haven’t always know how to)

  • You value connection with other women, or you want to cultivate deeper connections with women

  • You’re ready & willing to do the work of moving from competition to collaboration

  • You welcome diversity, stand for equality and care about kindness. 

  • You’re ready & willing to let go of being ‘good’ in order to be YOU

“If you looking for an amazing group of women, whole heartedly committed to a path of pleasure, embodiment, and authenticity The Collective is for you. It’s a fantastic way to work with Kendra after The No-Man Diet.”

“The Collective is a rare opportunity to work both with an exceptional teacher and be part of a web of women who are committed to learning, growth, love and kindness. A place where everyone can share exactly who they are, what they need, and where they struggle and be supported, held and guided as needed. An impeccably facilitated group to explore and deepen our own growth and learnings about how we are in relationship with ourselves, our partners and the world. A place not to fix what’s wrong, but to share in the idea of what’s possible.”

“My top three benefits from being part of The Collective are: 1) More time with Kendra and her deep deep generous love and teachings. 2) Learning how to ask for what I need (asking specifically for what kind of support or feedback). 3) Learning how to open up and share how I’m feeling / doing with the group (very scary for me but so rewarding when I do). 4) A sense of love and support for any challenges (or successes) I am experiencing. (Ok, that’s four…!)

“It’s a web of women like you’ve never met before. I have always been uncomfortable, uneasy, and unsure of women’s groups before. The Collective has changed that for me.”

I so love the safe, trusting, loving way the Collective is held and supported. It’s done impeccably and I’m so grateful. The communication is excellent and timely, we know when group calls are, and I’m so thankful for all the feedback and comments from Kendra and others when I post.”

What I love most about The Collective is how everyone is held so lovingly in their experience and also in their power. That there is space for showing up however you are and it in creating and holding this space, there is increased awareness for everyone who shows up. I love the way all the women respect and honor each other so deeply. I feel fully supported by and in this community. In terms of structure – I LOVE all the calls. The moon phase calls are always exactly right and I also really (really!!) love the community calls. These feel deeply nourishing and allow us to show up in a less structured way. I get to learn about the women in a different context and I love that.”

(The Collective) is filling a desire I didn’t really know I had (or at least not to the extent that I was consciously aware of). I feel grateful and fortunate that all the women who are members of the community are here and open to showing up as themselves in each moment and playing at their edges, wherever that may be in that moment.

I feel that in this community there are others who see and honour me and what my potential is sometimes more than I do and I am both held in how I am feeling and experiencing things now and invited into a new experience and exploration at the same time. This level of trust in the truth of my ‘ANDs’ by others feels like I am being offered trust/knowing in my capacity and ability to move into even greater awareness than I sometimes can hold by myself.

Thank you for curating this community and holding the vision for a space that feels like the truth of how women can and do show up for each other. It is something that I feel has been culturally lacking in my life and which feels deeply nourishing to me.”

What I love most about The Collective is how everyone is held so lovingly in their experience and also in their power. That there is space for showing up however you are and it in creating and holding this space, there is increased awareness for everyone who shows up. I love the way all the women respect and honor each other so deeply. I feel fully supported by and in this community. In terms of structure – I LOVE all the calls. The moon phase calls are always exactly right and I also really (really!!) love the community calls. These feel deeply nourishing and allow us to show up in a less structured way. I get to learn about the women in a different context and I love that.”

“(The Collective) is a home and a community that you deeply yearn for and which you didn’t know you wanted/needed in your life. It is the type of community of women that feels rare, the type of community that honors and begs for your whole self, now, and as you evolve and change. I would say that the women in the Collective (including Kendra) offer through their own experiences so much learning and inquiry into my own experience, that I don’t know how I got this far without a community like this. It feels like the thing that has been missing all of my life, these types of relationships with other women.”

“The only challenges I have had are welcome (?) challenges. Where my idea of myself has been challenged and where my ego is raging against me in reference to some idea or inquiry. These are the best type of challenges and despite how they sometimes feel, are exactly what I am looking for and am grateful for receiving – they mean something important has been keyed on. What has supported me is knowing there is space and time to be with them and no requirement to fix them or even to speak to them. I’ve noticed I’ve been able to give myself more permission to sit with things and not share immediately (as compared to in the past) and I feel this is because of the energy and container that is created in the Collective. The genuine flow of how people show up really supports this.”

(Before I joined The Collective) I was scared about whether I fit with a community of women. I was scared that I was too weird and my experiences were too much and that I would be ignored. I worried that I was not advanced enough in my healing/self awareness journey to participate. I worried I would be ‘told’ something I wasn’t willing to hear or take action on. Fuck, it took me more than two years of stalking Kendra’s work and longing to engage more deeply to actually build the courage to dive in (first with Beyond Boundaries, then Relationship by Design, then the Collective).

What put my concerns to rest were a few things — one is that I understand and feel my energy in relation to things and everything about it screamed “YES!!!!!”, even through the fear. I knew it was exactly the right thing for me.

Then when I got started in the Collective, I wasn’t pushed to show up in any specific way, I watched and waited, feeling all the shit that was coming up and kept being offered the invitation. I watched how the women were all engaging, and I guess it allowed me to trust I was right and that I could participate. I felt the energy and connection of how everyone was showing up and honestly, I fell in love with the women and the group.

Join The Collective

What is being offered in The Collective is not a quick-fix, but an opportunity for integration of concepts, experiences, practices, and relationships over time.

The container is broad, but deep, because it gives us the potential to work with everything. We can’t predict big life experiences, or the support we will want & need between those big life events. One woman might be creating the partnership of her dreams and another might be going through the death of a parent, while many are simply in the midst of daily life that already takes so much from us.

Rather than seeking peak experiences through doing a program, then going back into everyday life, not knowing how to integrate, and often having the work fall to waste, The Collective is about long-term integration — through community as well as coaching — that meets you right where you are and works with you in a moment to moment way, to make the shifts you want to make in your life over time.

This is why I strongly encourage an annual membership commitment. Something magical & tangible happens when we make a commitment—we remove the energy leak of the recurring choice-point. When we commit, we put ourselves in the crucible of the container, and life arises to meet us there.

Seasonal Membership

$444/every 3 months
  • Billed every 3 months
  • Cancel anytime

Monthly Membership

  • Billed monthly
  • Cancel anytime

Enrollment for The Collective is currently closed.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What if I don’t know anything about embodied wholeness?

That’s great! Kendra will offer you everything you need to take these practices on, one step at a time.

Is this only for female-born women?

Absolutely not. The Collective is a space for all womxn-identified humans including transgender.  I acknowledge that working with transgender women is not my area of expertise & I still have a lot of learning to do.  I am committed to that learning & to continuing to make The Collective a safe space for all womxn.

What if I can’t attend the live sessions?

All calls, practices, and teachings are recorded, and available on the Member Site.

The group calls are a place to receive regular live coaching with Kendra, and there are women in The Collective who get enormous value through the recordings & engaging in the Community Forum.

Is this a group only for young(er) women, old(er) women, mothers, single women, etc...?

The Collective is for all women. All walks of life. 

We have had women in their 20’s & in their 70’s.  Gay, straight & bi women.  Women from all over the USA, as well as women from Europe, South America & Australia.  There are many mothers in The Collective, as well as many single women, and women who have no desire to become mothers.

I already feel overwhelmed. I’m not sure I need another thing ‘to do’...

Then, my love, you definitely need The Collective.

This is a space to hold YOU.

About Kendra

Founder of The Collective: A Global Web of Women Devoted to Embodied Wholeness, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and practicing authentic relating, embodiment practices and deep intimacy work for over fifteen years.

Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women and couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication and full self-expression. She co-founded Authentic World and Fierce Grace, as well as The Embodied Relationship Training Salon (with John Wineland), and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relational work on the planet.

She works with organizations and leaders, as well as men, women and couples, who know that embodied presence, truth, connection and integrity are our truest access points to success – in business and in love.


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