by Kendra Cunov | May 3, 2019 | feminine, Generosity, intimacy, masculine, Relationship
Most people view conflict as something to be avoided, but every conflict can be an opportunity to create deeper intimacy and connection. What usually happens when we’re in conflict is we replay our childhood programming and wounding, and we unconsciously try to get...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 5, 2019 | feminine, Generosity, intimacy, masculine, Relationship, sexuality
No means no. We know this. We also know that regardless, many women say yes when they mean no and for a myriad of confusing reasons, they also say no when they mean yes, and this (understandably) confuses the hell out of men. Men are currently caught in two very valid...
by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2018 | Generosity, intimacy, Relationship
Most people acknowledge that space is a really important piece of the long-term health intimate relationships. Intellectually we get it, I haven’t been to a wedding in the last twenty years where someone didn’t read the Kahlil Gibran poem with the line, “let there be...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 30, 2018 | Generosity, intimacy, Relationship
Most of us know that space is a necessary part of a relationship and that allowing our partner to take space is right and healthy. We know that we all need alone time from our partners and friends, that it’s a good thing to do. But many of us know this in the same way...
by Kendra Cunov | Feb 14, 2018 | Authenticity, feminine, Generosity, intimacy, Life
Last week I quietly turned 40. I let go of all the voices, internal and external, telling me I ‘should’ make a big deal out of it; I ‘should’ have a big party. I spent the day quietly, at the beach, with my partner, sometimes talking about our future, sometimes just...
by Kendra Cunov | Oct 3, 2017 | Authenticity, Generosity, intimacy, Relationship
One of the most common complaints I hear from the people I work with around their relationships is: “I just don’t feel met” Or: “None of the wo/men I meet have done as much work on themselves as I have” Or: “I just want….MORE” Part of me cringes every time I hear any...